Thursday, April 14, 2011
Welcome to our New Clinical Director
Thursday, February 24, 2011
Congrats in Order
Thursday, January 27, 2011
Waiting
I don’t read much fiction, a fact of which I am not proud, but a few years ago I read a book that haunts me. The book was a best-seller by the Chinese author Ha Jin, called “Waiting,” in which a Chinese physician was caught in an arranged marriage and, because divorce was not legal, spent 18 years of his life waiting to marry a nurse with whom he fell in love.
In these modern times and in this western world, we are used to things happening quickly. It is difficult to wait for anything. We want our fast food, our fast cars, and, well…. And as I recognize the person staring back at me in the mirror less and less, waiting seems even more difficult. Time is a limited commodity, and there is simply less of it left in the bottle to drink.
But time is only experience; it is nothing more. And “waiting” is nothing more than wishing or imagining we were somewhere other than where we are now. So, we suffer from our imagination. We suffer from wishing our hands were doing something else, our eyes were feasting on a different sight.
So let us breathe in patience, and appreciate each moment to the extent our neuroses allow. In the Midwest there is a saying: if wishes were horses, beggars would ride. So, let’s let wishes be horses, and let’s let them ride off into the sunset with empty saddles.
Friday, December 31, 2010
Just a Little Bit Better
Thursday, December 30, 2010
Happy Kaizen New Year!
So, in the next few blogs, I intend to clue you in on the principles of kaizen and how they apply to what we do.
There are several facets of the kaizen approach, some big ones and some not so big ones. One key element is the focus on making small, measurable change, as opposed to large, radical shifts. Sounds like ABA, yes? We take our baseline, assess the problem, make a plan, measure the outcome, and memorialize the results if they are positive. It is the classic A-B design.
But in this entry, I want to focus on another piece of kaizen philosophy. That is the piece having to do with the importance of taking care of oneself. It is about working hard at what we do, but not so hard that we allow ourselves to get burned out.
In this holiday season let’s pause and consider how self-care gives us more energy to care for others as well. Self care doesn’t mean self-indulgence, or being self-centered. And it’s much more than finally taking that long, slow bath or treating yourself to a massage. Nurturing oneself can also mean embracing the kaizen principle of ‘personal discipline’ as a daily practice. That type of self-care helps us reduce from our lives those things which waste time, energy, space and resources. We find we have more time and more energy.
It’s not about expecting more from oneself than is reasonable. Rather, recognizing that the kaizen elements of effort and quality and can be applied to our own lives as well as our work. Underlying it all is the willingness to change.
Research has shown that the majority of New Year’s resolutions are broken very quickly. The one-shot, sudden approach, no matter how well-intentioned, can fail us. I’m going to look toward 2011 as the beginning of a fresh personal philosophy, inspired by the kaizen method of sustained change which is aimed at gradual improvement in a humane, people-oriented way. I hope to take better care of myself and in so doing take better care of our employees and our clients. Happy New Year.
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
Rising Stars
Sunday, September 19, 2010
"Go East!"
I am thrilled to announce that Pacific Child is opening its first office in the Midwest, which to us in California is really the East. Deb Ewen Miller, who has shepherded our Eureka, California office so brilliantly in the last several years, will be running our first office in Duluth, Minnesota. We hope to serve the entire Minnesota area out of this office.
As we embark on our Easterly expansion, I want to thank Deb Miller for her extraordinary work among the redwoods of Northern California. We are truly blessed to have her continue her work with PCFA, and brave the bitter winters, in Minnesota.